16 best dildos for penetrative play in 2025, according to experts

In fact, Marla Renee Stewart calls the rectum “a vacuum,” and that sex toys without widened or flared bases “will go in and have a hard time coming out.” Vibrating models are designed to provide extra stimulation and added sensations. Some models embed one or several motors to deliver instant extra stimulation and pulsing or throbbing sensations via multiple vibration modes. Thrusting vibrating dildo toys bring the movements of intercourse into solo play! A suction base lets you place the dildo where you want to play. There are various types of dildos available, which are designed for use by men, women , or couples.

Medium Squirting Dildo is the next step up in size and comparable to a real penis. The body safe shaft feels super soft, very flexible almost like jelly, but without the smell of jelly. Carter Pack and Play is the most realistic pack-and-play dildo we found. Besides the dual-density design, the versatile model has a bendable shaft, so you can wear it for packing during the day (or night) and whip it out when the moment is right.

The dildo feels good too, probably because it’s made from TPR and ABS plastic, which ensures the dildo is soft and pliable. The product features a suction cup, so you can fasten the dildo to a flat, clean surface and enjoy hands-free sexual fun. Alternatively, you can attach the Lifelike Lover dildo to a harness, perfect for a spot of strap-on teasing or pleasurable pegging. Secure the harness, use the dildo to penetrate your partner, and enjoy orgasmic fun. While the dual-density design means realistic sliding movements, the testers noted that it tends to stick on the skin and not slide swiftly like regular silicone dildos. For this reason, you’ll need more lube on the head and shaft to ensure a sloppy experience without chafing.

There are 7 vibration patterns, and 7 thrusting patterns to choose from, so you’ll be spoiled for choice when it comes to play. The dildo is rechargeable too, simply power it up using the USB charging cord and enjoy plenty of playtime. The remote requires a CR2032 battery, and this is included with the product. The name is a bit of a tongue twister, and the Remote Rolling Ring Dildo will get your knickers in a twist as well as your tongue. The dildo measures up well, with a total length of 7 inches, an insertable length of 5.5 inches, and a girth of 2 inches. With its authentic-looking head, firm, rounded balls, and prominent veins, the Lifelike Lover Luxe Dildo certainly lives up to its name in the looks department.

There are even toys out there that can simulate squirting and ejaculating, for the ultimate in realism. Usually controlled by a hand pump and catheter tube that runs the length inside your dildo, with refillable sacs of thick, opaque lube. Some of the strap-on and double ended dildos out there have additional textures on the backside of the dildo, designed to provide some extra clitoral stimulation. Most vibrating dildos use a removable bullet vibrator, so the above-mentioned Tango is a great addition to any bullet vibe dildo. This sort of hands-free experience adds another level of realism to using your toy, and also opens up new avenues of sexploration by yourself or with a partner.

There’s also a lot of toys that have the right general cylindrical shape, but don’t really look like a dick. These toys tend to be more ergonomic as the non-phallic shapes open up a lot of creative designs for both g-spot and prostate stimulation. After sifting through 600+ dildos, we can confidently say the average size is around 6 inches insertable length and 1.5 inches of max girth. This roughly corresponds to an average (or slightly above-average) penis size.

These designs with soft materials like polyester allow you to slip into a comfortable and enjoyable experience, regardless of gender. Whether for reasons of gender, disability, BDSM Inflatable Dildos, artificial insemination, or all of the above, sometimes you just want a dildo that ejaculates. Shilo has 6.25 inches of insertable length and is 1.5 inches in diameter.